wedding week

It’s a wedding week I guess. A lot of people are getting married this week means there are a lot of wedding to attend. I love wedding especially if the bride is one of my relatives. Two of my cousins are getting married this week. I’m happy for them and I do hope their love will last forever. What I hate about wedding is when people are talking about wedding stuff. You know about which guy do you have to choose, at what age you are suppose to get married n etc. Just now, my grandma and my mom were talking about these stuffs which I hate to listen to so I was like running away from the conversation. I did not sit next to them or even at the hall but I was sitting at the kitchen and took my dinner. However, my grandma is way to clever because she wanted to ask about the guy I am dating for now and she asked my mom first. But my mom couldn’t respond to it as I didn’t even talk about these kinds of things with my mom like everybody else did. She then yelled my name from the hall and asked me who is dating me now? How is he? And she keeps rambling about these things like you have to choose a good guy, you have to search for it now before its too late, you have to look for his honesty and bla bla bla. I know it is for good but then the point is I’m only 20 and I have no intention to get married until I finish my degree first, at least not without having my own house or my dream car. Long way to go for me yeah...haha.
Actually I’m kind of tired with these kinds of questions because it will be repeating again and again for the rest of your life. Its like when you are in the college, people will ask you when will you get married or when will you finish your studies, something like that. And when you already finish your studies, they will ask when you will get a good job or your own house n etc. Same goes when you get married, soon after that they will pop up with the babies question. When will you get your own babies? Something like that, isn’t it? It is common I guess but still I don’t really like it. I also hate when people is judging too much about our partner as what is happening to my cousin right now. She get married to this young guy who has not got a stable job just yet but he only works at his brother’s company which is still good for me( he has the effort to work at least).I have no idea why these people are being too skeptical about the relationship. They say that you should have found a rich guy to support you and you’ll eventually find happiness later. It is not true after all because you cannot be happy if you married a rich guy but he has no sense of loving you at all. How can you be happy to spend the rest of your life with him when you hate him right? Ha-ha…whatever it is, I wish my cousin will not end up with anything bad later. Hoping that their marriage will last forever. =]