People need to learn to show some respect towards others

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Finally it was such a big relief for me because my short semester has already ended yesterday. I can finally get a rest even though I did not feel tired finishing my short semester. It might be because I was off campus and by staying at home I felt much better. However as I was beginning to enjoy my break, there was something big happened today and it was not a good thing. I went to pick up my younger brother at his school this afternoon and I parked the car at usual place. While I was waiting inside the car I saw a school bus reversed. I thought the bus’s driver could make it so I did not move the car. Once again I said, I thought and I just thought. The thing was that he did not fail but it took a while for him to do the reverse because I was there and he would have wish for me to move out of his way. But I did not move. I sat there waiting in the car. Out of the blue when he already passed doing the reverse he stopped his bus right in front of my car. He jumped out of his bus and yelled “Hey you stupid” and that was the time I was getting mad. I said furiously “Hey could you talk properly” and then he came towards me as if he was big enough to scare me. Yeah obviously he was bigger than I was but I was not afraid at that time. He said something that he should not have said. By calling me a stupid was more than enough to make my blood running fast to be mad at him but even more surprise he asked me why I did not move my car because everyone was moving their car so that he could reverse. Hello there driver!! Wake up!! I thought you could make it so I did not move my car. Besides I was just waiting for my brother to come and then I will go out of your way so you just need to wait for a while. Plus you still have to wait for students to come to your bus before leaving right? So it does not matter at all for you to just wait for a little while. But I did not say these to him. I said who the hell are you to be calling me stupid? You yelled at me calling me a stupid and you laughed. What was he thinking at that time? I bet he must be thinking I was so afraid of him when he yelled at me that way. He knew I am a girl and very tiny one but you could not just jumped out like that and yelled at me. I was so furious and I said “could you be more like a normal human being? You could come to me and talk to me slowly asking me to move my car right? Could you do that? But instead of doing that you yelled at me calling me stupid? Who the hell are you to be calling someone else stupid? Don’t you have any manners? Clearly to me he was not that much of a normal human being because he said I could be a human being but it is just your attitude is like that. I replied to him “How could you know my attitude when you do not even come and face me just yet? You could not just jump to such conclusion saying someone’s stupid just like that. If you were a kind man, you could at least come and tell me to move my car or ask one of your passengers to tell me to do so. I would not mind if you were to come at me looking fiercely or furiously asking me to move my car. I mean I could still be mad at that time but I will move my car. But then you did not do so but you yelled at me. Does it cost you a buck for you to come to talk properly? He muted for a little while admitting that he was wrong then he apologized to me and I was doing the same thing but it was not the end just yet. He told me that he could see me trembling so he asked me to drive slowly back home and if I could just apologizing to him once again. I was like what? Are you kidding me? I was not the one who should be apologizing to you twice because you are the one who yelled at me without manners. He knew I was mad and he said he did not care if I took his bus’s number and lodge a report. He said “I am not afraid if you want to report about me. I don’t give a shit”. Well neither do I. I said to him “so do u think I’m afraid? I feel nothing. Not even a tiniest bit of fear” as for me I still think you are so wrong to yell at people like that when you could have actually talked properly. Besides, I’m just a kid and you should not be mad at me like that”. He told me if you were a kid so do not drive! I said I do have license and then he started to ramble about my car. Then he walked away and once again yelled “Go to hell”. Honestly I still have lots to say to him about what he did to me and I wanted him to know that he must talk properly to everyone even though that person may have wronged him. But I stopped there and drove all the way back home. I admit that I was wrong for not moving my car when I knew that he was reversing his vehicle but to some extent I think he could managed to reverse the bus even without me moving my car because there are still many spaces left. I was right about it because he actually managed to reverse the bus even when I was still there. He just wanted to yell at me because he was mad at me as if I would likely to be afraid of him just like everyone else. He might think that when he yelled at me I am going to be so afraid fidgeting inside the car and then move just like everyone else. I was not that stupid to stay still not defending myself when people yelled at me. Nowadays people are just so mean and so rude. They might think that when they are big people should be afraid of them. This is way too wrong. People would not likely to be afraid of you but to lose respect when you do not show any manners towards people around you. No matter how big you are, just think twice before you do something. Think twice as big as your figure. Show some manners and people will respect you.

4 response(s):

Khadijah Rahman said...

geram nampak. relek la.

whibley said...

of course geram kdy..huhu..but now its okayh..

Samuel said...

It ain't a perfect world, so we just have to adapt and live our lives to the fullest~ ;)

whibley said...

yeah..i do agree with you..well i still live my life to the fullest..=]